I look good today & I will not apologize for thinking it!!

As I looked at myself in the mirror today I thought “Damn, I look so hot today!!” 

Usually, I would feel vain about thinking this but you know what? I will NOT apologize for finding myself attractive. 

I worked hard for this body. I continue to work every day to not only maintain but improve this body. Why should I be made to think these thoughts are wrong?

Yes, a year ago, I would have thought that a girl who looked at herself in the mirror and had that thought was vain. 


I would think this because I was jealous. I was jealous. If you think this about another girl, then you need to admit to yourself that you are jealous

Now that that’s out of the way, I am here to tell you that if you are unhappy with any part of you…..CHANGE IT! Stop dwelling and stop spending your precious time wanting what others have!

Your body is what you make it. Yes, your body is a temple. My temple has recently undergone construction and is still making adjustments. 

It is never too late to change what makes you unhappy. I once thought my life was set, that my life was as good as it was going to get (2 kids, 235lbs, yeah that was me). Then divorce happened. It was a rush of cold water to my face. I wasn’t 80 years old, I was 27 years old. I had so much life ahead of me. Why should I let this man define who I was going to be for the rest of my life? I changed my life and realized that self love would keep me going further. 

I deserve to be proud of my hard work. You deserve to be proud of your hard work. 

So……I will restate……

Damn, I look so hot today!!



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